20 ways to become an ideal partner
Having sincerely falling in love, we try to do everything in order for the subject of passion to spend more time with us. And we also dream to make it so that he was good and comfortable with us. Here are some tips that will help to become the best in the eyes of a loved one.
1. Do not neglect the appearance.
Most likely, if you have been met for a long time, you have long stopped dressing up on dates. And in vain: starting to do this again, you will show the partner that you respect him and try for his sake, and this is very valuable.
2. … even if you live together
Even if during the “candy-bouquet” period, each of you saw the other “at the parade”, now, having gathered, you most likely appear to each other mainly in delayed T-shirts and pants with elongated knees. No one says that you have to walk around the house on stilettos or in ironed trousers, and yet try to look even at home so that you are not ashamed to open the door to suddenly incurred friends.
3. Be reliable
If you have agreed on the meeting, do everything to come to it on time and generally come. Do not refuse suggestions and invitations, even if you are terribly busy, otherwise the partner will understand that the relationship with him is not priority for you.
4. Do not be a slut
Perhaps, over the years of your life, you are used to the socks scattered around the house, the mountains of dirty dishes in the sink and the fact that
an exercise bike or chair is forever buried under a pile of clothing. And, perhaps, you are not shy about this, believing that the partner should accept you as you are. But the truth is that you just do not want to try for the sake of another person.
5. Divide the responsibilities readily
The key here is “readily”. Take on part of household chores or contribute to the life of the family, constantly muttering and indignant, of course, better than doing nothing at all, but not much.
6. Try to smell nice
It would seem, obviously, but, alas, many begin to neglect hygiene, especially giving a partner.
7. Talk about sex
And not only that you want him. Find out what the partner likes and what is not, and tell us about your preferences. Do not press on it with sex and never use it as a tool to get the desired. Talk about sex, no matter what stage of the relationship are.
8. Try to make contact with your partner’s environment
With family, friends, and maybe with colleagues. With everyone who is important for a loved one. If you don’t even try, be sure he or she will notice it.
9. Show the initiative, but do not try to control
It is extremely important to offer joint pastime options, but try not to dictate how to spend your leisure time. Listen to his or her wishes.
10. Remember that anger is destructive
Of all emotions, it is he who can cause the maximum pain to relatives. Of course, we all get angry and indignant from time to time, but the main thing is to learn to competently cope with our feelings and behave correctly in the height of the conflict. If you know that they are prone to aggressive expressions of emotions, do not put off work on this in a long box.